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In the rich tapestry of Yoruba culture , few traditions are as emotionally charged and deeply symbolic as Ękún Ìyàwó  — the bridal chant. This powerful oral tradition, passed from generation to generation, marks the bride’s final farewell to her childhood home and her emotional preparation for a new chapter in life. In this article, we’ll explore the meaning, purpose, and cultural significance of Ekun Iyawo , and why it remains a powerful tradition in Yoruba weddings today. 🗣️ What is  Ękún Ìyàw ó   ? Ękún Ìyàwó   literally means “the bride’s cry” or “wailing of the bride.” But it's more than just crying — it's a chant or oral performance delivered by the bride, typically on the eve of her wedding, as she prepares to be escorted to her husband’s home. Rather than random sobbing, the chant is structured, poetic, and reflective , often filled with emotional recollections, prayers, goodbyes, and occasionally, words of uncertainty or fear. 📚 The Origins and Tr...

  One of the most commonly asked questions by prospective initiates in Yoruba spirituality is:  “Why do I need to shave my head during Ifá or Orisa initiation?” In a world where hair is often tied to beauty, identity, and self-worth—especially under Western beauty standards—this requirement can bring emotional and social concerns. Friends or family may not understand, and initiates can feel pressured or even shamed. But hair shaving in Yoruba traditional religion is not about loss—it is about rebirth, cleansing, and deep spiritual transformation. In this post,  with the insight of Oloye Ayele Kumari (Facebook user)   we explore the 4 core spiritual reasons  behind this ancient ritual and explain why it’s a sacred and powerful part of becoming one with the divine.   ✂️ 1. Initiation is a Spiritual Rebirth Initiation into Ifá or any Orisha path is more than a religious ceremony—  �� It is a rebirth of the soul . Shaving the head marks the shedding of y...